I have been thinking how one day I could look at myself in a mirror and say, oh! I have no worries and I have got everything I needed. But unfortunately, It has never happened to me. None of the people I know. I don’t know if you have achieved everything you needed, and I really do not believe in that, no one will ever get everything they need in this world. What I always believed in my own life is that feeling alright with what I have is the best way of carrying on my life.
“Being happy doesn't mean that everything is perfect. It means that you've decided to look beyond the imperfections.”
Well, this is what I have been doing with my life. What do you do with yours? What If you don’t get something you really need in your life? Will you ever be thinking yourself that you are unlucky? It is really important that we learn from every failure in our life. Unfortunately, most of the times, we aren’t able to learn from our mistakes; instead, we always devalue ourselves and feel less important about our life. People who always believe that they can be a better person and better days will be ahead; will have high hopes. Those people carry shining light with their life. They are confident about themselves. They can see what is unseen about their life. We should always appreciate ourselves first, in order to appreciate others.
Tomorrow will never come.
This might be the biggest disadvantage in me. May be yours too. Frankly, I always keep what I can do today for tomorrow. May be I am a lazy guy and may be you too. In life, there are things that you get to do when you feel like doing it and things you need to do on certain time. But the reality is that, for everything that comes across in our lives, there is a right time for them. Let’s say, you got a job interview, you can either attend it today or tomorrow according to the employer. You just thought, oh today I don’t feel like going, I would rather attend it tomorrow. I will just hang out with friends and watch some movies today. You just decided to have fun today and keep that important interview for tomorrow. You wake up on the next day, oh no, you are feeling sick. You thought, you might not be able to attend your job interview. Now is the time, you really get realized that what if you have done your job interview yesterday.
There are no problems but they all are challenges in life
“ Ability to believing in that you do not have problems, but all your problems are just challenges in your life might be the best way to tackle your hardships”
This is what i wanted to believe in me; about my life. But most of the times, when there are problems in our lives, we just make it a problem, a problem, instead of taking it as a challenge. When we take our hardships as “ problems” we always feel ourselves a huge issue and we normally get discouraged to tackle it. But if we take it as a challenge, that brought from our life, from the world we live in, we just approach it in a very different aspect. So I always feel that we assume all our problems as challenges so that we get more courage to fight back. Of course, the reality and the bottom line is that we do have problems. Even the world itself has problems. Even the system we live in have problems. Even the richest man in this world will also have problems. Problems are really not connected with money or happiness. They really are embedded in our life.
God has created us a life that has something called problems. Because, God wants to know how much faith we have in ourselves. How much courage we have in our hearts. How much generosity we have in our hands; and how much we can fight through hardships.
“No need to cherish luxuries (cause everythin' come and go)
Even the life that you have is borrowed
(Cause you’re not promised tomorrow)
So live your life as if everyday’s gonna be your last
Once you move forward, can't go back
Best prepare to remove your past.” - Ghetto by Akon
Even the life that you have is borrowed
(Cause you’re not promised tomorrow)
So live your life as if everyday’s gonna be your last
Once you move forward, can't go back
Best prepare to remove your past.” - Ghetto by Akon
This is the honest reality of this world. This does not mean that you have to do hard to make your life successful. We only need to feel happy for every poor or every rich we get. We just don’t have to feel ourselves empty when we are not rich or do not get everything we need. This world cannot promise you anything. Even it cannot promise you tomorrow. That is the simplest reality of our life. God has created all of us with a time limit. But we do not know when our time will end. All we have to do is better prepared for the end of our chapter in this world.
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ReplyDeleteideas are very brilliant..well arranged ...we all should agree the facts of life we live. we may face barriers but the one who is successful in life would be who knows how to cross it. If you try to escape from it than you will be failed in life. So dear brother your philosophic ideas are very meaningful. keep up the good work. all the best
ReplyDeleteWell. I will say that this unabridged artifact is astonishing…. You are great novelist.. keep it up the virtuous drudgery my loving husband…:)
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ReplyDeletenot good! We are Muslims and none of any Islamic point of view is mentioned! Let me make it up to ye some how Insha ﷲ ! :
ReplyDelete"And, behold, with every hardship comes ease" (Qur'an 94:6)
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The prayer….the prayer
"O' you who believe! Seek help in patience and the Prayer." (Qur'an 2:153)
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"But as for him who is stingy and thinks he is self-sufficient, and denies the good, We will pave his way to difficulty." (Surat al-Layl: 8-10)
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If you read the Qur'an you will see that all the Prophets went through trials and tribulations. Life is a test so let us learn from the best examples of our Prophets. "Or think you that you will enter Paradise without such (trials) as came to those who passed away before you? They were afflicted with severe poverty, ailments and were shaken." (Qur'an 2:214)
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Thanks Saape for your comment. I wrote this article on general life point of view. In a common sense way. But what you have mentioned is the most important part actually.
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